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Grief Care Package

Affichée le novembre 10, 2009

• Auteur : Dr Bill Webster
• Organisation: Centre for the Grief Journey
• Endroit : Mississauga, Ontario L4Y 3J8
• Catégorie : Favorisez le bien-être
• Coût : À gros budget (50 000 $ à 250 000 $)

When someone you care about dies, or is going through a life threatening situation, it can be one of the most difficult experiences of life. Others mean well, but often do not know what to do or say, inadvertently leaving grieving people feeling abandoned short weeks or months after the death or the diagnosis.

How can we help people come to terms with their loss, and the new and unwelcome world into which their grief throws them?

Our idea is to produce and distribute at no cost to the recipients a “Grief Care Package” to help support people after bereavement or in a life threatening situation. NONE of the monies received would go to pay salaries or fund administration. ALL the proceeds would be invested in the development, production and distribution of the Grief Care Package to those who need it.

Dr Bill Webster is a grief counsellor and offers support programmes in many communities at no cost to the participants. His interest in the field comes out of his own personal struggle to cope with loss after the death of his wife in 1983.

The “Bereavement Care Package” would be sent, either through appropriate community agencies, or offered on a new supporting website, to individuals or families of the deceased.

Who could benefit? The Grief Care Package has an application in every situation where there is a death or significant loss. One example would be the families of Canadian soldiers killed or injured in the line of duty, who after the formalities of the “Highway of Heroes” often struggle to come to terms with their sad loss. Another example would be those whose loved ones die in a pandemic, such as the current H1N1 Swine Flu. Realistically, if a global pandemic really took hold, funerals and visitation would have to be postponed and social support would be delayed. This resource could bring some immediate support to people. Equally, agencies who work with people whose loved ones die by homicide, violence, suicide or by drunk driving could use the package. It would also have value in situations where the person’s loss is not validated because the relationship is not be legally defined or socially condoned, and who feel they do not “fit” in traditional grief support initiatives.

A different “Life Care Package” would benefit people or families going through a life threatening situation, to provide some information, ongoing comfort and helpful suggestions. Cash strapped hospices, hospitals and nursing homes could utilize this resource which would be offered at no cost.

Each “Care Package” would contain a DVD and several books and resources specially produced for the situation. There will be resources appropriate to adults and also to children. These would also be supported by a new website specifically geared to supporting people on an ongoing basis by providing ongoing web casts, forums and interactive programmes. The web site would provide a “Virtual Grief Counsellor” where people would not only to learn about grief, but to be able to network with others in similar situations. Less than 50% of our grant would be spent in producing the resources, and the balance in distributing it to those who need it.

We would hope that the positive benefits of this initiative would encourage the businesses community and concerned individuals to catch the vision of the ongoing importance of the programme, and that related agencies such as insurance companies, funeral homes, government agencies, hospitals, hospice would offer continued funding to make these resources available to people as an ongoing resource.

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  Losing someone you care about turns your whole world upside down. How can we help grieving people through one of the most difficult experiences of life?
  novembre 16, 2009 @ 9:35

  
  

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• Jennifer

  Excellent grant application. May you receive the maximum votes this deserves. Everyone needs a grief care package when going through the loss of a loved one especially for those who need extra assistance, support, and knowing there are people who very much care for them whether it be a loss of a loved one through war conflicts, people in extreme financial need, and to know where to find these resources.
  novembre 16, 2009 @ 11:38 EST

  
  

• AnnieGee

  Great Idea! This is definetly something people need to vote for. I live in a world where many of my close friends have passed on and I think this would be a great resource!
  novembre 16, 2009 @ 2:04 EST

  
  

• George

  What a fabulous idea. This is certainly one area that we all have in common. Unfortunately we don't always know how to best handle the loss of our loved ones or those close to us. In a world that is filled with uncertainty, resources such as the Grief Care Package can help in offering peace in the midst of a difficult journey .
  novembre 16, 2009 @ 2:39 EST

  
  

• Werner

  A great idea and a very valuable resource. Dr. Bill you rock!
  novembre 16, 2009 @ 3:57 EST

  
  

• Papa

  This is a fantastic idea, if it wasn't for Dr. Bill's support group I have know idea where I would be right now. Werner you are right Dr. Bill does rock.
  novembre 16, 2009 @ 4:22 EST

  
  

• Anne Marie

  This idea deserves great recognition. Dr. Bill nails this journey like no one I've spoken to or book I've read. Everyone who has suffered a loss should get the best help available and this is the it! It is a tough world out there and I know I would have been a "puddle" without this resource. You go Dr. Bill!!!
  novembre 16, 2009 @ 4:57 EST

  
  

• Judy Martin

  I wouldn't have survived my loss if were not for Dr. Webster. He had so much patience with my negativity and difficulties. I only wish I could repay him in some way, maybe this is how I can make a difference. Judy Martin
  novembre 16, 2009 @ 10:04 EST

  
  

• Gibbs

  A Grief Care Package is definitely a great idea to help you cope with the loss of a loved one. You need all the support and tools available to get you through such difficult times.
  novembre 16, 2009 @ 10:11 EST

  
  

• Lorna

  I am so pleased to offer my support to this proposal. It is a much needed resource for people who often don't know where to turn. Let's keep showing our support!!!
  novembre 17, 2009 @ 9:19 EST

  
  

• Phyl

  After being a part of Dr. Webster's Grief Care Support Group, I appreciate the importance of this Package to anyone suffering a loss! An amazing idea!!!
  novembre 17, 2009 @ 9:41 EST

  
  

• Alex Gellman

  Dr. Bill Webster brought light back to my world after I had lost my mohter, brother and father. His work is blessed by God and the angels. I am voting for him to get his grant to be able to help more people. When somebody dies we love our world sudenly ends. I practice Homeopathy with a focus on healing loss to learn more go to www.alexgellman.com
  novembre 17, 2009 @ 11:00 EST

  
  

• Molly

  Our son committed suicide 2 years ago and we attended a six week grief counselling group which was offered by Dr. Bill Webster. Although the process of grieving is far reaching, Dr. Webster's sessions were helpful in aiding us to understand the dynamics of living with grief. I think this Grief Care Package is a long time coming and an absolute necessity. I do not hesitate to support this proposal, and may it move hastly.
  novembre 17, 2009 @ 11:28 EST

  
  

• FDeFrancesco

  Don't know where I would be without Dr. Bill's help. Thank You
  novembre 17, 2009 @ 12:41 EST

  
  

• carolyn

  I wholly support this proposal. Dr. Webster's grief program helped me through the loss of my husband. He is very committed and caring and his proposal deserves recognition.
  novembre 17, 2009 @ 1:33 EST

  
  

• carolyn

  I wholly support this proposal. Dr. Webster's grief program helped me through the loss of my husband. He is very committed and caring and his proposal deserves recognition.
  novembre 17, 2009 @ 1:33 EST

  
  

• klovesbingo

  This is such a great idea. I lost my husband 3 years ago and I have found Dr. Webster's program to be a real life saver. I don't know where I would be today if I had not taken advantage of his program. He is a caring and dedicated individual who works tirelessly to help people cope with their loss and re-establish themselves after the loss of a loved one.
  novembre 17, 2009 @ 4:29 EST

  
  

• Martin

  Dr. Webster's service is absolutely invaluable to those who have suffered losses in their lives. My mother and I attended two years ago when my father passed away after a lengthy illness. His caring and gentle yet straightforward manner was just what we needed to help us reconcile our family's loss. To be able to extend this service further into the community would be of tremendous benefit to a great number of people. I wholeheartedly support this proposal.
  novembre 17, 2009 @ 5:20 EST

  
  

• Manuela

  Dr. Webster, you are an amazing person. Such dedication to the cause. Thank you.
  novembre 17, 2009 @ 10:47 EST

  
  

• jazzCLR

  I am happy to support this idea. Dr. Bill and his organization do so much for others who have lost a loved one, and ask for nothing in return. We need more people like him in this world! I hope this cause is recognized for everything it is worth.
  novembre 18, 2009 @ 3:41 EST

  
  

• Uncle_Tom

  I think this is a very worthwhile idea which would help many people who are in remote areas and cannot benefit from the support enjoyed by people in large metropolitan cities. The benefits are real and tangible and bring much needed understanding to the concept of grief support.
  novembre 18, 2009 @ 4:24 EST

  
  

• ElDeme

  Aamazing. Some people cry out for help but many others do not want to burden anyone or show that they are in need of some support themselves. Tis is the group of people who want to reach out to and I think this proposal is a fantastic outreach program to these very people. Well done once again Dr Bill.
  novembre 18, 2009 @ 5:27 EST

  
  

• Dundee

  Dr Bill Webster's grief counselling and expertise is getting me through the most difficult time in my life after I lost my spouse of 49 years. This new venture to assist the community here and abroad who have suffered similar losses deserves all the help and support it can get.
  novembre 18, 2009 @ 6:56 EST

  
  

• l.nicho

  as a support worker for cruise also wife of a funeral director, I believe anything we can do to ease the pain of grief for people is invaluable so good luck with your application you dederve it
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 6:04 EST

  
  

• Lisa C

  This type of resource is so very important for those experiencing the loss of someone. Dr Webster is a true champion for this cause and helped me through my grief journey a few years ago. I hope your application is chosen.
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 8:01 EST

  
  

• HEIDI

  Loosig a loved one is the most difficult thing in life.......I just wanted to thank Dr.Bill so much for helping me through a really tough time I know that there are alot of greieving people out there and its so hard I really hope that this application goes through and it is chosen I truly believe it will be.Thankyou again Dr,Bill for everything your the best!!!!!!!!
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 9:17 EST

  
  

• numbersgirl

  This is so important at such a sad time in your life. Good luck with this.
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 9:24 EST

  
  

• Werner

  Dr. Bill, mere words can not convey what a life raft you have been - and continue to be. Your message needs to go out there for people in need.
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 12:23 EST

  
  

• karenlambie

  I think this is a great idea and I wholly support Dr. Bill in this endeavor.
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 12:26 EST

  
  

• Donald

  I benefitted tremendously from attending Dr. Bill Webster's seminars. They provided great support for me during a very trying period of my life. I cannot praise their benefits too highly. I support this project completely.
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 12:42 EST

  
  

• Bill Webster

  Dr Bill writes: Hey all you guys, THANK YOU for all these kind and generous comments. We still have a VERY long way to go here so keep voting every day, and let as many people as you can know about this, and encourage them to vote as well. I really do appreciate your support. Dr Bill
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 2:23 EST

  
  

• Tootsie

  Without support groups and support material, I cannot imagine how I would have survived through the grief I experienced. Dr. Bill Webster's seminars were very supportive, and I am very grateful that they were available. Our community needs to develop a far greater awareness to the needs of grieving people, and every step taken further down that road is for the greater good. This project would benefit so many people ina very needed way.
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 2:58 EST

  
  

• Sharon C.

  This is a wonderful idea. After losing someone close to you most people do not know where to turn for help or are too upset to ask for help. Having information given to them in a package will give them a starting point in their personal healing process. It will help others to realize that they never have to be alone. This package will be a step toward reaching into the community to assist even more people. Great plan Dr. Bill.
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 3:03 EST

  
  

• Dean

  This is a very worthwhile idea. With the losses I have had when I was a teanager and young adult (16,26 years old) there was not any support made available to myself. Only after a more recent loss, was some support made available. This package will be a great help to the community and greiving people and their families and friends.
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 4:25 EST

  
  

• SeanS

  I have been working with Dr. Webster for 6 years now producing his website and various grief support materials - and am incredibly proud to be a part of this initiative. I've been touched by how these materials and information can impact and help those through the grieving process. Lets keep those votes coming and make this happen!
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 4:40 EST

  
  

• orange

  Congratulations Bill, juanne
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 6:12 EST

  
  

• DIANNED

  Dr. Bill Webster has impacted so many lives....probably more than he can ever imagine. Without his support after the death of my spouse I am not sure that I would have "made it through" such a difficult time. The impact is far reaching as when I am getting better, my surrounding family members such as children, brothers, parents are also impacted by the loss and how I cope with it. So, Thank you so much -- your life work is very meangful and I can only ope that you are able to get more support so that MORE support can be spread around! It has been 6 years sicne I attended the group sessions and I have been very grateful to also access written support materials. MANY THANKS!!
  novembre 19, 2009 @ 9:45 EST

  
  

• Marilyn R

  Dr. Bill I think this is such a great idea and worthy cause. This is definitely what people need at this sorrowful time in their lives. All the best in this endeavour.
  novembre 20, 2009 @ 9:37 EST

  
  

• mapa

  This is a wonderful supportive resource. The pkg. will help inspire those who have lost a loved one to find the strength, resolve, inspiration and courage to focus on making a positive difference in this world. Tragedy allows us to help others only when we have helped ourselves. There are so many worthwhile causes we can support.
  novembre 20, 2009 @ 12:05 EST

  
  

• Jennifer

  Five years ago, my father passed away and I was going through many mental health difficulties. I was very close to my father and Dr. Bill Webster's COPES series very much helped me to get through a very overwhelming period of my life. I had been going to other support groups but the COPES series made me feel very important and other people were going through similar difficulties. In a few years down the road, I will be going through another death of which will be my mother and I will definitely need this support package. I am very happy to have known Dr. Bill for 5 years now and to be with a very supportive grief group.
  novembre 21, 2009 @ 12:25 EST

  
  

• nicho

  good luck it a well worth cause one thats forgotten
  novembre 21, 2009 @ 12:56 EST

  
  

• Bill Webster

  Hey Everyone. With one week to go, we have a HUGE mountain to climb here to get the votes we need. Can we keep up the effort. please? Vote TODAY and EVERY day and let as many people as you can know about this. However, may I say that whether we get to the finals or not, I have been SO encouraged by the kind comments and generous words of support. This outreach IS important, so one way or another we will continue to find ways to enable people work through the difficult challenges after a loss. Keep voting, but above all keep believing that ALL of us can make a difference. Thank you all for your support and encouragement.
  novembre 22, 2009 @ 7:41 EST

  
  

• Urwins UK

  Bereavement as we all know is a difficult time and Dr. Bill has helped lots of people comes to terms with their loss through his own experience. We at Urwins fully support him in all he does, he has helped many of our clients come to terms with their grief. It was a pleasure to have worked along side him.
  novembre 22, 2009 @ 7:44 EST

  
  

• winething

  Soothing/healing an injured soul -- you can't place a dollar value on such an act but Dr. Webster produces dramatic results with a cheerful voice and smile that would benefit so many more if the Grant was received. A worthy endeavour, worthy of support.
  novembre 22, 2009 @ 8:52 EST

  
  

• Greg Price

  Dr Webster is at the forefront of this important work and has influenced and help countless hurting individuals across Canada and the Uk and through his teaching and support materials. This scheme is important and worthy for thisunding as it will affect countless thousands of epople who need support which is why I fully endorse this application.
  novembre 24, 2009 @ 6:22 EST

  
  

• rr121

  There are not sufficient words to describe the tremendous benefits that would be reaped from a resource such as Dr.Bill's awesome proposal. Since the loss of my husband, I have had an extremely tough journey back to living. Although, at times, I have been fortunate to have had the comfort of friends, I did learn that a tragic loss, the grief you carry from it and its consequences are difficult for people to comprehend, unless they themselves walked this road. They would like to help but are at a loss of what to say or do. To quote Shakespeare, as told to me by Dr.Bill, "everyone can master a grief that is not his own". Without Dr. Bill's experience and knowledge in this field and his dedicated commitment to help and guide, I would not have been able to take the healing steps to come to terms and to cope. We live in a 'me' oriented society where people in need have few places to turn. Dr. Bill's proposal can only be considered an invaluable resource during a very difficult and co
  novembre 24, 2009 @ 5:13 EST

  
  

• newfie rose

  Dr. Webster was very instrumental in helping me deal with my grief on the loss of my spouse. Words cannot express how grateful I am for his seminars. Thank You Dr, Webster and staff.
  novembre 24, 2009 @ 7:57 EST

  
  

• Incorrigible

  Always support those in need especially when having to cope with the loss of a loved one. Great idea!!
  novembre 24, 2009 @ 8:16 EST

  
  

• ellen

  Dr. Webster I know that this would be a tremendous help to many and wish you all the best in this endevour. For someone grieving there is nothing greater than to experience someone willing to show that there is hope for tomorrow. Dr. Webster you helped me through a tough time of multiple grief’s and now part of my life consists of helping others. Thanks, and I wish you well.
  novembre 24, 2009 @ 8:20 EST

  
  

• M J Charles

  A great idea and a necessary resource.
  novembre 25, 2009 @ 3:13 EST

  
  

• D&L Wiebe

  Dr. Webster's presentation, sponsored by two local funeral homes, was very enlightening. Having lost our 32 year old disabled son just months prior to this presentation and hearing Dr. Bill speak of his own loss added a lot of credence to what he said. Keep up the good work.
  novembre 25, 2009 @ 11:35 EST

  
  

• scotland

  When my husband died the undertaker gave to a friend,for me, a booket by Dr Webster which was so helpful in explaining the feelings which were washing over me. I bought his other books and have lent them to friendswhen they were widowed. I think having a"Grief Package" easily obtained from undertakers, bookshop, wreath-making florists, etc.would allow Dr. Webster to ease the grief of so many more people as we all, at some time in our life, experience the death of a spouse, friend or relative.. People are inclined to leave you alone to grieve,so the Grief Package would be helpful company
  novembre 25, 2009 @ 1:37 EST

  
  

• imagine.utop

  Dr, Bill Webster you are One Amazing Man!! Thank you for the e-mail notice of this. I am voting daily and have shared this on my facebook page in hopes of getting you more votes ASAP. I want to thank you for the encouragement you provided me when my Husband was Killed in 2005...I am still struggling with deep grief, confusion, depression and could certianly use a Grief Care Package. Our Canadian Justice System is so slow.... I attended a Grief Workshop session in Port Elgin this past spring and they shared a couple of Your Video's during the sessions. The people were very impressed with what you have to share!! I shared books you wrote, which I pruchased when I attended your workshops in 2005-2006. Keep up the Great job you are doing Helping so many of us!! Mrs. Kim Hardcastle
  novembre 25, 2009 @ 2:01 EST

  
  

• Ellie

  This is an excellent grant application. A comprehensive grief package available to those who are grieving the death of a loved one is very much needed. I hope you get the maximum number of votes needed to bring this project to reality. Good luck Bill!
  novembre 25, 2009 @ 2:05 EST

  
  

• diane t.

  Dr. BILL has helped me through my loss. I have met some very nice people through his grief group,and he understands what you are going through. thanks Dr. Bill.
  novembre 25, 2009 @ 4:25 EST

  
  

• Incorrigible

  Keep it going! This is a truly wonderful idea. We need to get the message out and have the support available. Sometimes those grieving souls are so consumed and distracted, they refuse to reach out for help. I know; I've been there . . . twice within four years. Dr. Bill and others were a great help to help me keep some sense of sanity. I hope this works!
  novembre 25, 2009 @ 6:51 EST

  
  

• walter

  This will really help a lot of people im all for it
  novembre 25, 2009 @ 6:56 EST

  
  

• Sandy

  Wonderful work Bill!, you sure helped Walter and I, I know you continue to guide people back on their feet.
  novembre 25, 2009 @ 8:23 EST

  
  

• ibar1922

  I have had experience over a few years of working with Dr Bill throughout the UK - and have heard him speaking to professionals, Funeral Directors and to those touched by bereavement or those who support the bereaved. It is fair to say that Bill is a unique resource. There are others out there doing the same work but Bill Webster provides a great insight into these issues and has the ability to deliver the message to rapt audiences. The audiences are usually spellbound and he gets "rave reviews" Funeral Directors in the UK recognise his value to their grieveing families. This sounds like a great initiative
  novembre 26, 2009 @ 5:28 EST

  
  

• Holly

  I have had the privilege of know Bill for many, many, many years (back when he and Caroline and the boys were in KW). I'm not surprised that he would get into this type of work, and feel that God has definitely directed his life! Keep up the good work Bill!
  novembre 26, 2009 @ 11:00 EST

  
  

• Maid Marian

  Sounds like a wonderful idea!!
  novembre 29, 2009 @ 7:30 EST

  
  

• Jennifer

  Bill, congratulations on receiving over 1000 votes. Many of us were very supportive on assisting you to receive this grant. Let's try again for the next deadline because this is an extremely worthwhile cause. Excellent care package Bill.
  novembre 30, 2009 @ 11:21 EST

  
  

• raymond

  Bill david&i want to thank you so much for your help in our time of need we will never forget you keep up your wonderful work and congratulationson your votes god be with you , Eileen Pearson
  d�cembre 2, 2009 @ 8:10 EST

  
  

• Bill Webster

  Hi, everyone. It's Dr Bill here, just to say a sincere THANK YOU for voting for this project, and even more, for all the encouraging and positive comments we received. While we didn't muster enough votes to make it to the finals, the project is a good one, and especially with all the positive affirmation we have received, we will continue to try to find ways to make it a reality. Many many thanks for your participation and for your support. Have a meaningful Christmas, and do something nice for someone whose Christmas may not be so bright this year.
  d�cembre 2, 2009 @ 8:23 EST

  
  

• plcarson

  Bill just to let you know I have several friends sign up as I think that this is very important and it is a great way to reach to a stranger and offer a helping hand.
  d�cembre 27, 2009 @ 10:27 EST